Traumatic Stories

Future self

Your Future Self Can’t Grow in Survival Mode: How Stress Blocks Healing and Creation

I know survival mode better than I know my own reflection. For years it was my default setting. Wake up, hustle, grind, collapse, repeat. Always scanning for danger, always bracing for the next blow, never once asking what kind of future I was actually creating. Maybe you know that cycle too. The one where life

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the grief

When You Stop Being the Parent to Your Sibling: The Grief That Comes After the Longing

They put the entire weight of the relationship on me for as long as I can remember. I was the one who reached out first. Who apologized first. Who tried to “understand where they’re coming from.” I carried every emotional load like it was my birthright, because somewhere deep down, I thought that’s what you

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