Author name: Esha

Hi, I’m Esha, a passionate psychologist and advocate for personal growth. Through my journey of self-discovery and transformation, I’ve spent years diving deep into the connections between mind, body, and spirit. I’m here to share insights on wellness, mental health, and personal development, blending scientific research with practical tools to inspire change in your life. Whether it’s through the latest findings in neuroscience or personal stories of overcoming challenges, my goal is to help you harness the power within to live a more fulfilling and balanced life.

the grief

When You Stop Being the Parent to Your Sibling: The Grief That Comes After the Longing

They put the entire weight of the relationship on me for as long as I can remember. I was the one who reached out first. Who apologized first. Who tried to “understand where they’re coming from.” I carried every emotional load like it was my birthright, because somewhere deep down, I thought that’s what you […]

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Is Your Environment Controlling Your Mind? 5 Signs You’re Not Really Choosing Your Life

You wake up, grab your phone, scroll through Instagram, check the news, reply to a message, and then realize, you haven’t even brushed your teeth yet, but your mind’s already drowning in noise. That right there? That’s the hijack. And most people don’t even know it happened. I didn’t either. Until I did. And once

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You’re Not Your Past – You’re Just Addicted to It: How to Change When Change Feels Unnatural

There’s something nobody tells you when you decide to change your life: The new version of you won’t feel like “you” at first. And it’s not because you’re faking it.It’s because you’re unlearning who you’ve been rehearsing your entire life. See, we all think we’re a collection of our personality, our habits, our story.But most

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Are You Creating by Default or Design? Why Trying Harder Isn’t the Answer (and What Actually Works)

You wake up.Check your phone.Drink the same coffee.Think the same thoughts.Rush into the same stress.React to the same problems.Call it a day. Repeat. Sound familiar? Most people don’t live by choice.They live by default.And it has nothing to do with being lazy or unmotivated.It has everything to do with how the brain works. The truth?

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thinking positively

Why Thinking Positively Isn’t Enough (When Your Body Is Still Stuck in Survival)

There’s this belief floating around in the wellness world that you can fix everything with positive thinking. Just write affirmations.Just be grateful.Just “high vibe” your way out of anxiety. And when that doesn’t work, when you’re still crying in bed after journaling about abundance, you start thinking you’re the problem. Let me stop you right

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past

You’re Not Stuck -You’re Just Repeating Your Past Without Realizing It

Let’s cut the fluff. Most people aren’t stuck because life is unfair.They’re stuck because they’re unknowingly rehearsing the same life on loop, and calling it fate. It’s not your goals that shape your reality. It’s your emotional memory.And if your body is still living in yesterday’s pain, your brain will make sure tomorrow looks exactly

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